Friday, November 17, 2006

A lesson in life

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.

If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish.
Create your own life and then go out and live it.



Soon my internet service at my flat will be disconnected. I will not be able to have any entry or blogging for a while.

Thank you for your wishes, support and prayer. Only Allah will be able to pay you back.

Will meet again. Insyaallah.

Good bye for now.

Keep smiling, laughing and loving..:-)

Anggerik Merah
Nov 19, 2006
5:15 pm


Lollies said...

i second that everything happen for a reason. even if the reason may seem to be against you, but there is always a reason in a bigger picture, which we often cannot see.

Allah is indeed the greatest planner.

anggerik merah said...


very true indeed. We can only plan and make it happen.
You take care. Muaahhhh.

Anonymous said...

take care..

rubyahmad said...

Hi Anggerik Merah,

What an absolutely beautiful note you have here. Really beautiful somehow to me right now. Like I needed it, every point, even though I have read them before elsewhere. But at this instant, your note is somehow fabulous. Luv ya.

Gosh! I will miss you without the internet line. Really I would. Take care my dear. Holler the moment you can.

Count Byron said...

All the best AM. You are always up there, with or without internet facilities. So, enjoy your time.. and your last part of the struggle there. Allah be with you.

maklang said...

Semuanya yang berlaku ada hikmahnya InsyaAllah...

~ GAB ~ said...

Love to see more good ones coming from you. Have a good day!

UglyButAdorable said...

AM..sesungguhnya it's so true and for everything that happen there's blessing in it...

AM..i wish you Selamat Hari Raya..harap masih sempat..and will keep dropping here for your updates.. u take care..

atn said...

AM: kat office tak de connection ke?

Count Byron said...

AM.. are you OK girl?

rubyahmad said...

Hi Anggerek Merah,

Just to let you know, am missing you, dear.

anggerik merah said...

Simah dear,

Kak Ruby,

I miss you too. Replied your email.


Thanks you for motivating word. I need it.


yes it is so true. Loads of reflection for me.

thanks. Will have more later.


thanks dear for dropping in.

kat office slow to even place comment and no YM. Miss chatting with you.

Dear Count,
thanks for asking. I appreciate much.
Kak Ruby,

I miss you too. Replied your email. Think abt you alot. Take care! Love your sweet smile.